BECOME AN OFFICIAL   FTST HOST

Join the human connection revolution!

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F*ck the Small Talk is a one-of-a-kind social experience where strangers come together for an afternoon of meaningful, fun, and deep conversation. It’s also just a different
& cool way of meeting new people by getting a bit out of your
comfort zone and skipping the small talk! 🎈

It all started in Berlin in 2019 out of my frustration of going to unfulfilling and boring Meetups. I (hey, it’s Stefano!) cringed every time someone asked me “where are you from?”. To this day, I still don’t have the short answer.

Since then, I’ve met some incredible humans who have brought the event to cities beyond our initial reach. Together, we’ve hosted over 10,000 people in 30 different cities, from Berlin to Vienna, London, Lisbon, Mexico City, Madrid, Vancouver, and even Reykjavik (Iceland)! 🌍

Most importantly, we’re on a mission to bring humans together in the most creative ways possible. We’re fighting the loneliness epidemic, inspiring curiosity, and empowering others to become more intentional gatherers. After years of testing, experimenting, and hosting, we are ready to bring this to even more people around the world.

We’re looking for awesome hosts like you
to join the movement! 🌍

30 cities

10,000+ people

1 epic movement

Hosting is an incredibly rewarding experience! ❤️
You can expect to:

Craft unique experiences that spark human connection

Meet incredible people & expand your network

→ Unlock a new revenue stream

→ Sharpen your facilitation & public speaking skills

→ Build your personal brand & stand out

→ Discover a new career path

Join an amazing community of purpose-driven hosts around the 🌍

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A woman smiling outdoors on a mountain trail with wind-blown hair, wearing a headband, a dark jacket, and a pink patterned scarf, with mountains and cloudy sky in the background.

Being an FTST host is honestly one of my greatest joys, and when I feel like the truest and best version of myself.

It really feels like I'm helping other people make new friends and connections, while at the same time building my community (and being paid for the privilege.)

If a dream job is doing something you'd do for free for money, this is totally it! My 'day job' is quite head-focused, so it's great to have such an energising and heart-focused side-hustle where I can let loose and help others do the same in a safe and playful environment.”

- Charlie, hosting since 2021

Who we’re looking for 😎

  • Previous experience with groups (facilitation, hosting, public speaking, event organization, facilitation, and/or similar jams)

  • Commitment to host at least 1 event per month or 10 events per year (can be more if demand is high)

  • Clear and positive communication
    (comfortable speaking in public)

  • Great time management, self-motivated, and organized

  • Purpose driven 💙

  • Ability to create an inclusive environment

    Other qualities we value 👀

  • Creativity: propose forward new ideas and initiatives

  • Resourceful and good at improvising

  • Playful approach to life

  • Interested in experience design

What’s in it for you 🚀

  • Compensation: Between 250-550€ per event
    (depends on your city)

  • FTST Cohort training (three 2-hour live sessions)

  • F*ck the Small Talk™ Host Manual

  • Official FTST Host Certificate

  • Initial setup in your city (we cover the costs)

  • Meetup Organizer Account (costs 250€ a year)

  • Conversation card deck & exclusive host merch

  • Use of our brand and design elements

  • Marketing support for your events (newsletters, social media)

  • Join the FTST Host community

  • Opportunity to host private/corporate events under the EPIC LLAMA brand (must be discussed)

  • Regular host check-ins on Zoom

  • Free access to all our events and workshops


If you’re vibing,
hit that groovy button below and let us know who you are! If we think we’re a good match, we’ll send you more info & schedule a call with you.

The investment for the onboarding is 350€
(which you’ll make back quickly).

6/10 spots left
Sign up below, and we’ll invite you to next one :)

Starting September

💬 Please read the FAQ before you apply :)

💬 Payment plans available. If you’re from a lower-income country, we offer adjusted pricing - just let us know!

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Facilitating FTSTs has been a super rewarding experience not only due to meeting amazing people and feeling gratitude for the effort put into the events but also on a personal level, as I’ve gained more confidence as a speaker and a host. - Kristyna

Burning Questions 🔥

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Love from the llamas ❤️

Google Reviews
4.9
(238)
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Hi there 👋
Happy you made it down here :) Just wanted to say slide by and say that I’m excited you’re here. It’s been such a beautiful journey so far, and we can’t wait to meet you soon! Feel free to message me if you have any questions.

Talk soon & 1000 llama hugs 🦙,
Stefano

Next Events

Meet the hosts

  • A woman with long, curly brown hair smiling on a city street with parked cars and green trees in the background.

    Catarina

    Zurch 🇨🇭

  • A woman with short curly red hair smiling, wearing a denim shirt, sunglasses on her head, and a backpack, standing in front of a floral mural background.

    Elle

    Buenos Aires 🇦🇷

  • A woman with wavy red hair taking a selfie indoors, wearing a black shirt with a relaxed smile.

    Yana

    Wellington 🇳🇿

  • Young woman in a blue tank top and gray shorts smiling with tongue out, standing outdoors near rocky cliffs with a scenic green landscape and cloudy sky in the background.

    Giulia

    London 🇬🇧

  • A man with long dark hair wearing futuristic virtual reality glasses, standing outdoors on a sunny day with trees and buildings in the background.

    Rudra

    Mexico City 🇲🇽

  • A woman smiling outdoors in a mountainous landscape with cloudy sky, wearing a headband, a scarf, and a jacket.

    Charlie

    Nomad 🗺️

  • A young man with dark curly hair smiling and pointing at the camera outdoors on a sunny day.

    Stefano

    Nomad 🗺️

  • A woman hugging a large tree trunk in a forest surrounded by green foliage.

    Jen

    Victoria 🇨🇦 / Nomad 🗺️

  • A smiling woman with blonde hair and earrings, wearing a black shirt, standing against a yellow background.

    Corinne

    Edinburgh 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • A woman with blonde hair outdoors holding an ice cream cone. A light-colored dog, possibly a husky, nuzzles her face. The background shows a grassy yard, trees, and a fence during sunset.

    Luana

    Berlin 🇩🇪

  • A woman with long dark hair and light skin, smiling and looking over her shoulder, standing indoors near a wooden wall with a large window.

    Samantha

    Merida 🇲🇽 / Nomad 🗺️

  • Smiling young woman holding a cup of gelato topped with fruit, pineapple, and a pineapple slice, sitting outdoors at a busy street food market.

    Teresa

    Nomad 🗺️

  • A woman sitting on a colorful mosaic bench near the ocean during sunset, smiling and wearing a white t-shirt and beige pants.

    Alina

    Montreal 🇨🇦

  • Close-up of a smiling woman with blonde hair and blue eyes outdoors, with green foliage background.

    Lucy

    Berlin 🇩🇪

  • Young woman with dark hair wearing a denim jacket leaning against a stone wall with glasses resting on her head.

    Jamila

    Dubai 🇦🇪

  • A smiling woman wearing a tan shirt, black pants, and a black cap standing in front of mountainous terrain and a green pool.

    Stefanie

    Toronto 🇨🇦

  • A woman with long black hair wearing a wide-brimmed straw hat, glasses, and a white shirt, is eating a snack outdoors with blurred trees and people in the background.

    Krystal

    Vancouver 🇨🇦

  • Smiling woman with dark curly hair and nose piercing relaxing in a hot air balloon basket during sunset, with a view of other hot air balloons floating over desert landscape.

    Giorgia

    Torino 🇮🇹

  • A woman with glasses smiling indoors, with colorful graffiti on the wall behind her.

    Samar

    Riyadh 🇸🇦

  • Woman with sunglasses smiling by a waterfront railing, city skyline with boats, and the Galata Tower in the background on a sunny day in Istanbul.

    Jenny

    Barcelona 🇪🇸

  • A woman with long, wavy hair standing outdoors on a clear, sunny day with a mountain landscape and green trees in the background.

    Jenn

    Hamburg 🇩🇪

  • A woman with long black hair, wearing a black top, a necklace with large silver beads and a black heart-shaped pendant, smiling softly at the camera.

    Ecem

    Istanbul 🇹🇷

  • A young woman with curly dark hair and glasses is sitting on a bed, playing a small white ukulele, smiling at the camera, with a minimalist abstract artwork behind her.

    Rheanna

    Wellington 🇳🇿

  • A woman with light skin, light brown hair, green eyes, wearing a gray knit beanie and a brown patterned jacket, looking out the window of a train or bus, with trees and a blurred landscape outside.

    Abbygaelle

    Brussels 🇧🇪

  • A llama with a white coat and dark markings on its face, has upright ears, against a yellow and orange marbled background.

    Future Host